Happy Easter everyone, wishing you a relaxing and renewing holiday.
With this week’s newsletter, I thought I would share with you interesting facts about the Fawn Trauma Response pattern & the identity you become from it.
Knowing that it is not your fault how life is panning out for you and that this program has been tested with amazing results for myself and those of the students. As well, this is to inspire you to join my next program commencing Tuesday 13th April, 6.30 pm, if you feel FAWN is a pattern and identity you would like to transmute.
I too have lost many years, money, time and trust looking for someone, something, to fix, change, heal ME and my childhood trauma. That was until I found FAWN Trauma Response and began untangling the grip it had over all parts of my life and then installing the changes necessary to begin living my life in freedom, grace, joy, harmony and abundance.
That is how this program began, to give you the tools and the practices to continue on in your life, I look forward to sharing with you the realisations, the changes and the dreams come true in order to ignite your life force again, awaken that Soul, Spirit again and to fulfil your Soul purpose with confidence, ease and abundance. Please read on…..
Once you become fearless, life becomes limitless!
We all know the normal fight, flight and freeze responses but FAWN is the four-letter Trauma Response no-one is talking about. It addresses the frustrating life questions of:
- why you can’t use your voice,
- why you can’t be seen, and
- why you can’t stop sacrificing your life for others, no matter the cost to yourself.
Fawn Trauma Response (TR) forfeits on your behalf and makes you sacrifice without conscious consent. You will see in your past how this has happened and then how to change that perception to work for you in the future.
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How many of the following … relate to you and your life? Tick them as you go, if you have five or more, you are definitely a pre-programmed FAWN.
- You are the peacekeeper and are either called upon or you automatically step in to keep the peace in all camps. Calming, pacifying, weaving, keeping together, dodging the bullying, making sure all are protected, safe and sound. Even though you do not like confrontation or speaking up, this never stops you when protecting others.
- You are one who actively supports and creates success and the dreams a reality for others but ultimately forsake your own success, health, needs, desires and dreams.
- You find yourself on the cursed merry-go-round, questioning when is it ever going to be my turn?
- Many times, when you are finished with, have been used, taken advantage of, you will be the one discarded, pushed out, moved on and no longer required, without the right of reply.
- You usually cannot speak up for yourself, but you can easily advocate and defend for others, even if there is conflict involved, you find the courage and strength of a mother bear for their protection and rights.
- You know what you need to do, and you have all the skills but by playing it safe and quiet all the time, it becomes your overall protection mechanism, because you have a great fear of being rejected, abandoned, criticised, judged, intimidated and the list goes on. This keeps you stuck in quicksand, the more you want to move and change the deeper you sink, so you give up, not easily, and then forced to settle for less.
- You are a chameleon, changing who you are to not stand out but to fit and blend in, limiting yourself and your life.
- You usually become for others what you never received as a child. Protection, love, family, support, abundance, friendship, stability, money.
- You are the OVER giver, over-responsible, over pleasing, everyone is your responsibility, it’s hard to look after you and your needs, there is always someone else more important, so you give up yours.
- You learnt not to trust others and now you don’t trust yourself, self-doubt robs you of life. Your voice, value, visibility, vision is all in the waiting wings, life is a struggle for your needs. Self-sabotage, self-punishment is the Fawn Trauma Responses boundary fence, fear does not allow you to go beyond.
- It’s very hard for you to receive. You may feel guilty and ashamed if you do receive or, you are at the mercy of others with the mental monkey mind chatter, ‘what will people think or say if I…do or don’t do…which controls all outcomes in life, keeping you stuck.
- It’s very hard for you to put make your needs a priority – similar to the above. You may feel guilty and ashamed if you are prioritizing self needs, you are at the mercy of others with the mental monkey mind chatter, ‘what will people think or say if I…do or don’t do…which controls all outcomes in life, keeping you stuck in the giving mode.
- You have tried every avenue, modality, paid money and spent time to get some relief from this affliction in life, still to no avail. Nothing works or changes, but you see changes for others.
- You usually have a relationship breakdown from childhood with your mother, sometimes father but mostly mother. The wound never heals and you never feel complete.
FAWN stands for – Fearful – Anxious – Wired –Nervousness Never ending
Fawn Trauma Response is an addictive pre-programmed pattern and identity, you are reliving the childhood trauma with adult personalities involved. The amygdala and reptilian part of the brain has been hijacked and will not set you free.
Its main role is to keep you safe, at any cost, it is hard-wired into the nervous system, so anything that feels unsafe, unsure of or perceived as dangerous is out of limits for you. Anxiety becomes a way of life.
You are programmed to stay in the people-pleasing, serving role, Fawn TR believes you still are the child and does not realize you are the adult wanting what is rightfully yours.
Fawn TR keeps retreating us, automatically, into the old ‘unresolved’ childhood trauma, so while we are trying to make adult decisions with a fearful childhood memory in charge, it is never going to change, we will never win, we will never be free. Until now!
From Fawn to Fearless Program unpacks the lies, illusions and hidden agendas the Fawn trauma response has created by learning to master this old programming you will be ultimately stepping into your freedom and the life you desire.
In this program you will discover your deepest truths that will allow you to step forward to a life where your dreams are realised, your relationships, both business and personal become rich and abundant.
You will set free your rebels’ heart to stand authentically, unapologetically and fearlessly into your power and in turn, be open to receive the abundance and prosperity Soul and Divine Source has waiting for you.
This is where life begins on your terms.
Once you become fearless, life becomes limitless!
It is an 8-week program, each week is focused on one area of your constricted and controlled life. Beginning with awareness and the rules of the Fawn TR and how to break and replace them, the weeks of the 7 V’s are Voice, Value, Visibility, Vulnerability, Vision, Vigilance and finally Victory on week 8.
Throughout the program, and beyond, you will learn to feel SAFE AND FREE in this sacred circle, you will get practice reprograming your mindset, in a safe, supportive environment. To connect with your Soul, becoming your own Soul Caretaker and Observer of life.
When you know the rules of the Fawn TR you can then change and replace them with your adult choices, while at the same time, reparenting and resolving the past trauma so that it does not repeat in the future. Yes, you learn these tools as we unpack each week how this has affected you and your life.
What has this cost you in your life? It’s time to get honest and courageous in claiming the life you had only dreamt of. If I can do it, so can you!
BOOKING DETAILS – click here https://innerchildharmonycoaching.com.au/product/from-fawn-to-fearless-program/
Early Bird discount ends 8TH April – $997, bonus gift included. Full price $1299 (Payment plans are available upon request)
Blessings be,
Bernie©